Newsletter – What You Can Learn From Chickens About How to Select the Best People

April 23, 2018

What You Can Learn From Chickens About How to Select the Best People

People, of course, are not chickens but TED talker Margaret Heffernan likes to compare the two when she talks to executives about their workforce. https://www.npr.org/programs/ted-radio-hour/443411154/the-meaning-of-work

She cites a famous chicken experiment by Purdue Professor William M. Muir in which he bred chickens for their productivity (measured by egg laying), for six generations, with the theory that would lead to a breed of “super chickens” who would then produce even more eggs. Sadly, the opposite occurred. https://evolution-institute.org/when-the-strong-outbreed-the-weak-an-interview-with-william-muir/

The most productive hens turned out to also be the most aggressive and pecked others to death. Out of the nine hens in the experiment, only three survived and those three were plucked almost bare during chicken “fight clubs”.

The hens in the “normal” control group continued to lay eggs at a productive rate. Heffernan has found in her research that these results hold true for humans and my informal research comports with her results. Super-competitive workers may also be the most aggressive and bullies wreak so much havoc that other people become less productive.

Money doesn’t change the equation. People may work harder for money, but not necessarily work better with other people, and almost all work these days requires collaboration. Heffernan’s additional findings are that building cooperative teams requires “social capital”, which is only built when people have time together to create trust and have some meaning to their work.

 

What Should You Do?

The bottom line: 
  • Select people who “play well with others”, not just superstars.
  • Give them time to connect. In one experiment, just scheduling synchronized coffee breaks increased productivity.
  • Recognize that people do work for money but also meaning. Increasing revenue might sound like a worthy goal but it doesn’t inspire most people to come to work every day. Give them a feeling that their contribution goes deeper – especially if you can give them a sense that it matters to the team they are closest to.

 Did You Know

 

While we don’t conduct chicken experiments, we do conduct surveys with our clients in order to validate what works for all of our management and leadership workshops. A focus on working well with others is always a part of our curriculum.

Call or write me to discuss your options at: 303-216-1020 or Lynne@workplacesthatwork.com

Learn more about our training offerings and check out our team members at:
 
Read Lynne’s book “We Need to Talk” – Tough Conversations With Your Employee and learn how to tackle any topic with sensitivity and smarts.
Be sure to read Lynne’s book “Stop Pissing Me off!” and
learn what to do when people you work with drive you crazy.
         
Workplaces That Work | (303) 216-1020 | lynne@workplacesthatwork.com
3985 Wonderland Hill | Suite 106 | Boulder, CO 80304

Newsletter – Attracting and Keeping the Best Employees: What Really Works

April 16, 2018

Attracting and Keeping the Best Employees: What Really Works

I like making money; you probably do too. But, for most of us, money isn’t the only thing that matters. That is true for people you are trying to hire and retain also. In today’s labor market, where potential and current employees can choose from a smorgasbord of offers, how can you make sure they will continue to choose you?

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2017/12/28/2018s-challenge-too-many-jobs-not-enough-workers/?utm_term=.e058bcecb0e4

 

What Should You Do?

Here are three things that work —

1)   HIRE AND TRAIN ON EQ, NOT IQ

With change a constant in most organizations and the pressing need to hire and retain top talent, make sure that you hire for Emotional Intelligence (EQ), not just IQ. In my experience, most leaders don’t follow this rule. Instead, they focus on academic credentials and impressive resumes. These are not the things that build a strong culture where people want to join and stay.

Studies show that Emotional Intelligence accounts for 75-80% of success in life. When you interview and check references, don’t just look for skills, look for an ability to empathize, resolve conflict successfully, and skillfully assert one’s own needs. These are traits that build strong teams.

As Herb Kelleher, the iconic founder of Southwest Airlines put it:

“We will hire someone with less experience, less education, and less expertise, than someone who has more of those things and has a rotten attitude. Because we can train people. We can teach people how to lead. We can teach people how to provide customer service. But we can’t change their DNA.”

2)   INSPIRE

Everyone says that good leaders inspire yet most do not have a clue how to create an inspiring environment. Research shows that 37% of employees are not aligned with the organization’s mission and do not know what the company is trying to accomplish and why… much less how they contribute to that goal. Evolutionary biologists tell us that the need to belong and to know how we fit into the tribe is primal. Everyone wants that feeling that they know where the herd is going and why.

3)   CREATE A STRONG CULTURE

Organizations with a strong culture average 65% lower turnover than those who do not have one. Many things contribute, of course, to that ideal but there is no question that it starts at the top.

As a part of several projects we did for Southwest Airlines, we did a presentation for 200 executives right before lunch. Kelleher was there and we were scheduled to have lunch afterwards. He came up to meet me and walk me back to the buffet table. I had never spoken with him before so I was excited to have a chance to meet him. No such luck! As we walked through the crowd Kelleher stopped every thirty seconds to great someone and ask about their son’s recent basketball game, a vacation to Mexico, a divorce, illness or celebration. There was no question that he knew and loved his people and that they relished the attention.

I’m not saying that you should pry into every employee’s private life but — just as Kelleher was famous for hopping into the baggage department unannounced to help lug bags — getting into the thick of things with your people will inevitably lead to closer relationships with them. Your staff will follow suit and follow you off a cliff.

 Did You Know

 

In our management and leadership work we focus on building strong cultures that help you attract and retain   the best. We also conduct individual and group emotional intelligence assessments.

Call or write me to discuss your options at: 303-216-1020 or Lynne@workplacesthatwork.com

Learn more about our training offerings and check out our team members at:
 
Read Lynne’s book “We Need to Talk” – Tough Conversations With Your Employee and learn how to tackle any topic with sensitivity and smarts.
Be sure to read Lynne’s book on how to handle tough conversations with your employees.

 

Workplaces That Work | (303) 216-1020 | lynne@workplacesthatwork.com
3985 Wonderland Hill | Suite 106 | Boulder, CO 80304

Newsletter – Why You Need One-on-One Sensitivity Training AND Performance Management Training

April 9, 2018

Why You Need One-on-One Sensitivity Training and Performance Management Training

We have seen a dramatic uptick in requests for one-on-one sensitivity training AND coaching since the rise of #MeToo. This type of coaching can be effective and we have learned how to create engaging coaching opportunities. Yet we find that these sessions frequently do not provide the offending managers all they need.
If they have been accused of some form of harassment and discrimination, the danger of a retaliation claim looms. While they need coaching on the definitions of retaliation and how to avoid such claims, they also need to understand performance management since performance that is not managed skillfully is the place that is most likely to create retaliation claims.
“…performance that is not managed skillfully 
is the place that is 
most likely to create retaliation claims.”
The classic case: an employee files a harassment claim who is having performance problems. Perhaps such problems exist because of the harassment or there may be other factors. Regardless, even if the manager who allegedly engaged in or allowed the harassment is found during an investigation to not have engaged in the behavior, the performance problem still exists. If the manager does not understand how to carefully manage performance and document their efforts, retaliation claims predictably follow.

 

What Should You Do?

In addition to one-on-one sensitivity training for the manager, make sure that they have performance management coaching that covers:

  • How to create relationships with employees that set up performance expectations and goals.
  • How to properly document those expectations and goals.
  • How to create honest dialogues with employees during one-on-one meetings that let them know what is working and what is not working.
  • How to create easy and effective systems for follow-up documentation of those meetings.
  • How to avoid accidental and harmful documentation.
  • How to handle performance improvement plans.
  • How to prepare for and handle terminations.

 Did You Know

 

In addition to one-on-one sensitivity coaching, we regularly provide individual coaching on
performance management. Call or write me to discuss your options at: 303-216-1020 or Lynne@workplacesthatwork.com

Learn more about our training offerings and check out our team members at:
 
Read Lynne’s book “We Need to Talk” – Tough Conversations With Your Employee and learn how to tackle any topic with sensitivity and smarts.
Be sure to read Lynne’s book on how to handle tough conversations with your employees.

 

Workplaces That Work | (303) 216-1020 | lynne@workplacesthatwork.com
3985 Wonderland Hill | Suite 106 | Boulder, CO 80304

Newsletter – What is Condescending or Demeaning Behavior and Why You Should Care

April 2, 2018

What is Condescending or Demeaning Behavior and Why You Should Care

 

Many complaints about bullying involve what complainants label as condescending or demeaning behavior. When coaching those accused of this behavior, we find that they frequently do not understand what we mean by those terms.

Here are some suggested definitions and examples:

  • Condescending behavior is having or showing a feeling of patronizing superiority; showing that you consider yourself better or more intelligent. It is usually intended to make people feel bad about not knowing or having something and it often works.
  • Examples of condescending behavior include acting as if you know everything and are not open to new ideas, reacting to an upset with “well, that’s never happened to me”, offering unsolicited advice (unless you are a supervisor), not being open to feedback, referring to people in the group in the third person (even if they are sitting right there), using pet names, talking over other people.
  • Demeaning behavior is that which is intended to cause a severe loss in the dignity and respect of someone; words or actions intended to debase, lower, degrade, discredit or devalue a person.
  • Examples of demeaning behavior include criticizing a person in front of others, making jokes at another person’s expense, rolling eyes after someone’s comments, making sarcastic comments about a person.

 

NOTE: In most situations, these behaviors do not violate the law or most employers’ policies unless they are based on protected characteristics.

What Should You Do?

  • Train managers and employees on effective workplace communication.
  • Coach managers who do not communicate effectively.
  • Share these guidelines with those who are accused of this type of behavior.
  • Model effective and respectful behavior yourself.

 Did You Know

 

We provide both training and coaching on the subjects of condescending and demeaning behavior. You may also call or write me to discuss your options at: 303-216-1020 or Lynne@workplacesthatwork.com

Learn more about our training offerings and check out our team members at:
 
Read Lynne’s book “We Need to Talk” – Tough Conversations With Your Employee and learn how to tackle any topic with sensitivity and smarts.

Be sure to read Lynne’s books on how to handle tough conversations.

  

 

Workplaces That Work | (303) 216-1020 | lynne@workplacesthatwork.com
3985 Wonderland Hill | Suite 106 | Boulder, CO 80304